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","datePublished":"2018-01-27","dateModified":"2023-04-26","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.rusticana.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.rusticana.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/55e7fbc61e9322b6822dac9bb7a03f27da3135fab89e5bb0463eeaffc32ea652?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/55e7fbc61e9322b6822dac9bb7a03f27da3135fab89e5bb0463eeaffc32ea652?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"rusticana.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.rusticana.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a286361_w16574_t1522163373.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.rusticana.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a286361_w16574_t1522163373.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.rusticana.sk\/facka-alebo-diplomacia\/","about":["Deti"],"wordCount":469,"articleBody":"Neraz rodi\u010dom st\u00e1va, \u017ee nad nezbednos\u0165ou svojich det\u00ed str\u00e1caj\u00fa trpezlivos\u0165 a\u00a0kr\u00e1tkym procesom im vysvetlia, \u017ee ich spr\u00e1vanie je nepr\u00edpustn\u00e9. Tento sp\u00f4sob sa uplatnil najm\u00e4 vo v\u00fdchodn\u00fdch krajin\u00e1ch Eur\u00f3py, av\u0161ak Z\u00e1pad sa k\u00a0tak\u00fdmto praktik\u00e1m stavia ve\u013emi kriticky. Najm\u00e4 Anglicko zast\u00e1va n\u00e1zor, \u017ee na deti sa mus\u00ed \u00eds\u0165 cez ch\u00e1pav\u00fd dohovor a\u00a0nie bitku.Predstavme si situ\u00e1ciu, kedy matka stoj\u00ed nad svoj\u00edm pla\u010d\u00facim die\u0165a\u0165om, ktor\u00e9 tak \u00fapenlivo p\u00fdta hra\u010dku z\u00a0obchodu. Nechce matku po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 a\u00a0jeho krik narast\u00e1 do tr\u00e1pnej sc\u00e9ny. Ako sa m\u00e1 matka zachova\u0165? M\u00e1 pokra\u010dova\u0165 v\u00a0dohovore alebo ho aj napriek jeho protestom vzia\u0165 pre\u010d?\u00a0Odborn\u00edci zo Z\u00e1padu v\u00a0tom maj\u00fa jasno. –\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ich v\u00fdskumy ukazuj\u00fa, \u017ee pri kriku a\u00a0hneve rodi\u010dov u\u00a0det\u00ed nast\u00e1vaj\u00fa najrozmanitej\u0161ie zmeny fungovania organizmu \u010di dokonca kr\u00e1tkodob\u00e9 alebo aj dlhodob\u00e9 psychick\u00e9 nap\u00e4tie.–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Facku ber\u00fa ako ur\u00e1\u017eku vo\u010di ich osobe a\u00a0nie ako prostriedok, ktor\u00fd ich m\u00e1 pou\u010di\u0165 z\u00a0nap\u00e1chanej \u0161kody. U\u017e v\u00a0mladom veku si uvedomuj\u00fa svoju osobnos\u0165 a\u00a0len \u0165a\u017eko sa vyrovn\u00e1vaj\u00fa so zranenou p\u00fdchou, najm\u00e4 ak sa v\u0161etko odohralo e\u0161te pred zrakom inej osoby.–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 S\u00a0narastaj\u00facim vekom sami prich\u00e1dzaj\u00fa na to, \u017ee ak bitku dost\u00e1vaj\u00fa iba preto, lebo ich rodi\u010dia nie s\u00fa schopn\u00ed vysvet\u013eovania, prest\u00e1vaj\u00fa si svojho rodi\u010da v\u00e1\u017ei\u0165. Ber\u00fa ho ako \u010dloveka, ktor\u00fd nezvl\u00e1da svoje pocity a\u00a0z\u00a0takej osoby si odmietaj\u00fa bra\u0165 zodpovednos\u0165.–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Sebavedomie det\u00ed kles\u00e1. \u010casto si v\u00a0spomienkach vybavuj\u00fa nepr\u00edjemn\u00e9 z\u00e1\u017eitky z\u00a0bitky a\u00a0utvrdzuje ich to v\u00a0sm\u00fatku a\u00a0strachu prevzia\u0165 iniciat\u00edvu.–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Z\u00a0trestu si nevezm\u00fa \u017eiadne ponau\u010denie. Jemn\u00e9 plesnutie po zadku ich neodrad\u00ed od toho, aby nesk\u00fasili svoj n\u00e1pad ako vy\u0161tvera\u0165 sa na kuchynsk\u00fd pult alebo dosiahnu\u0165 vzdialen\u00fa v\u00e1zu.–\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 U\u00a0det\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 vyrastali v\u00a0n\u00e1siln\u00fdch podmienkach sa v\u00a0nesk\u00f4r m\u00f4\u017eu vyskytova\u0165 psychick\u00e9 probl\u00e9my. Napr\u00edklad odhalili, \u017ee u\u00a0tak\u00fdchto det\u00ed sa u\u017e v\u00a0\u0161kolskom veku vyskytla vy\u0161\u0161ia miera agresivity.Spr\u00e1vny rodi\u010d by mal v\u017edy vedie\u0165 kontrolova\u0165 svoje pocity a\u00a0nevyv\u0155\u0161i\u0165 ich na svojom die\u0165ati iba preto, lebo ich u\u017e viac v\u00a0sebe nedok\u00e1\u017ee unies\u0165. Mal by ma\u0165 na pam\u00e4ti, \u017ee n\u00e1silie prin\u00e1\u0161a viac \u0161kody ako \u00fa\u017eitku, a\u00a0preto je najlep\u0161ou vo\u013ebou vyh\u00fdba\u0165 sa mu. Ak nastane situ\u00e1cia, kedy je trest potrebn\u00fd, die\u0165a by si malo by\u0165 vedom\u00e9 u\u017e predt\u00fdm, \u017ee kon\u00e1 nespr\u00e1vne \u2013 rodi\u010d by v\u0161ak mal svoje em\u00f3cie kontrolova\u0165 a\u00a0die\u0165a najlep\u0161ie potresta\u0165 napr\u00edklad zn\u00ed\u017een\u00fdm vreckov\u00fdm.\u00a0                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.4\/5 - (8 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Facka alebo diplomacia?","item":"https:\/\/www.rusticana.sk\/facka-alebo-diplomacia\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]